swarm/network: light nodes are not dialed, saved and requested from (#17975)

* RequestFromPeers does not use peers marked as lightnode

* fix warning about variable name

* write tests for RequestFromPeers

* lightnodes should be omitted from the addressbook

* resolve pr comments regarding logging, formatting and comments

* resolve pr comments regarding comments and added a missing newline

* add assertions to check peers in live connections