Make prepared statement cache optional (and disabled by default)

Interpolate subqueries with ?

Modify Makefile to run tests concurrently

Adds per-session SetConnMaxLifetime, SetMaxIdleConns and SetMaxOpenConns and prevents transactions from being prepared concurrently on the same session.

Add default AND join within Or. Closes #280

Fix handling of slice parameters. Closes #279

Add tests that count prepared statements during testing

Add test for Where() before Set() on update

Don't use statements that are marked as dead

Add And() to Result

Add NumActiveStatements() and test case

This reverts commit fbc7b773.

Fix inconsistency with Where and And on SQL builder.

Fix race condition when cached statements where closed while still in use

Make query error report errors on Query and QueryRow.

Drafting query logger and db config