Enable longrunning tests to run (#19208)

* p2p/simulations: increased snapshot load timeout for debugging

* swarm/network/stream: less nodes for snapshot longrunning tests

* swarm/network: fixed longrunning tests

* swarm/network/stream: store kademlia in bucket

* swarm/network/stream: disabled healthy check in delivery tests

* swarm/network/stream: longer SyncUpdateDelay for longrunning tests

* swarm/network/stream: more debug output

* swarm/network/stream: reduced longrunning snapshot tests to 64 nodes

* swarm/network/stream: don't WaitTillHealthy in SyncerSimulation

* swarm/network/stream: cleanup for PR