les, les/lespay/server: refactor client pool (#21236)

* les, les/lespay/server: refactor client pool

* les: use ns.Operation and sub calls where needed

* les: fixed tests

* les: removed active/inactive logic from peerSet

* les: removed active/inactive peer logic

* les: fixed linter warnings

* les: fixed more linter errors and added missing metrics

* les: addressed comments

* cmd/geth: fixed TestPriorityClient

* les: simplified clientPool state machine

* les/lespay/server: do not use goroutine for balance callbacks

* internal/web3ext: fix addBalance required parameters

* les: removed freeCapacity, always connect at minCapacity initially

* les: only allow capacity change with priority status

Co-authored-by: rjl493456442 <garyrong0905@gmail.com>