changes that fix it all:

- set proper public key serialisation length in pubLen = 64
- reset all sizes and offsets
- rename from DER to S (we are not using DER encoding)
- add remoteInitRandomPubKey as return value to respondToHandshake
- add ImportPublicKey with error return to read both EC golang.elliptic style 65 byte encoding and 64 byte one
- add ExportPublicKey falling back to go-ethereum/crypto.FromECDSAPub() chopping off the first byte
- add Import - Export tests
- all tests pass