all: library changes for swarm-network-rewrite (#16898)

This commit adds all changes needed for the merge of swarm-network-rewrite.
The changes:

- build: increase linter timeout
- contracts/ens: export ensNode
- log: add Output method and enable fractional seconds in format
- metrics: relax test timeout
- p2p: reduced some log levels, updates to simulation packages
- rpc: increased maxClientSubscriptionBuffer to 20000