internal/ethapi, accounts/abi/bind: cap highest gas limit by account balance for 1559 fee parameters (#23309)

* internal/ethapi/api: cap highest gas limit by account balance for 1559 fee parameters

* accounts/abi/bind: port gas limit cap for 1559 parameters to simulated backend

* accounts/abi/bind: add test for 1559 gas estimates for the simulated backend

* internal/ethapi/api: fix comment

* accounts/abi/bind/backends, internal/ethapi: unify naming style

Co-authored-by: Péter Szilágyi <peterke@gmail.com>