Switch peerId from 256 to 512 bit (as in stable) (#3862)

* Switch peerId from 256 to 512 bit (as in stable)

* go mod tidy

* Fix some tests

* Fixed

* Fixes

* Fix tests

* Update to erigon-lib main

Co-authored-by: Alex Sharp <alexsharp@Alexs-MacBook-Pro.local>
Co-authored-by: Alexey Sharp <alexeysharp@Alexeys-iMac.local>